Adults Making Adult Decisions
I’m sure it’s a controversial position in some circles, but this by Josie Marcellino does make a substantial point:
If you’re of the belief that becoming a mattress actress [porn performer] at 18 is predatory and a bad idea because you’re still not fully formed and you don’t know what you’re doing to yourself, you do have to believe the same thing about getting married and having children at 18.
I want to raise my own hand in objection to anyone who proposes to tell adults when or why they should fuck. If you want to argue about how we define adults these days (it’s trendy recently to talk about prefrontal cortexes and when they stop growing) that’s a fair conversation. But no fair carving out sex as a special category that lets us sneer at the adult decisions adults make, especially if you want to divide it into goodsex and badsex subcategories with different rules. People are adults, or they’re not. You respect the decisions adults make about sex, or you can fuck right off.
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