Why She Likes Being A Domme
Thea Rose explains why she likes being a domme, and it’s not just the reasons you might think. As she explains:
The reason I like being a domme is not because I like whips and chains and latex. The reason is because I’m neurodivergent, and men annoy me.
Being given the explicit, up-front consent to say what the fuck is exactly on my mind in dating is amazing — and knowing that they’re gonna love that.
Day one of talking to a new guy, he messages me all day, and then the next day he drops off the face of the planet. So I feel complete permission to say, “Hey, the way you’re communicating with me, this flow? This really isn’t gonna work for me. So I’m wondering if you can improve on this, or if this is normal for you. But I don’t tolerate this level of communication.”
Dominance has given me the permission slip to be blunt and assertive and direct, which is something that I’ve always been. And in the bedroom, it helps me advocate for exactly what I want, and my pleasure. I can’t recommend trying it out more highly!
This notion of non-obvious benefits to power exchange sex play makes perfect sense to me. Another example: when I was a total newbie first experimenting with BDSM bedroom play, using a blindfold on my femsub partner was a huge confidence booster. I didn’t fumble any less with the toys and restraints, but at least she wasn’t watching and smirking at my inexperience! (In truth she was far too kind to have ever done any such thing. But the blindfold provided an extra layer of assurance.)
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