Why RealDolls Are Creepy
Susie Bright has posted an interview with author Sera Gamble that touches on why Real Dolls are creepy:
As for grown women with doll collections – while I didn’t look at them and think, “This woman is perverse,” I do have a reaction. I look at the dolls and wonder why this woman is collecting legions of fake babies. In the end, my response is a visceral one. Dolls are creepy because they so closely resemble real children — pretty, well-dressed, frozen children. Those “Real Dolls” creep me out because they look a little too much like a real woman. Specifically, a staring, motionless, dead woman.
I used to be in a kickboxing class that used a plastic dummy that looked like a man. We would practice aiming kicks at various body parts. Punching a dummy feels different than punching a bag. There’s a strange feeling that you’re almost doing something wrong. Like you’re beating someone up who has to just stand there defenseless. Like you’re doing violence with no accountability. Then came the day when someone put a clown wig and lipstick on the dummy. Now we were humiliating him, too! It was funny, but I felt like underneath, we were indulging some ever-so-slightly dark impulses. God only knows what we would have done to him if he was anatomically correct.
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Real Dolls *are* creepy. Not bad, just… creepy…
You only have to look at a Real Doll to know why it’s creepy.
Which doesn’t make it, you know, bad. ;)
In robotics they call this the ‘uncanny valley’ – http://en.wikip...alley
I’m all for play acting and exploration, but I have to say: these dolls leave me cold – literally.
I’ve had a grab of one and although the elasticity of the material felt nice, the temperature was just too cold for my liking.
I’m sure you could warm them up with some hot water or something, but it’s not really my idea of foreplay. Though perhaps it would be someone else’s ;)
yeah, absolutely. Real Dolls creep me out.
sure, there are reasons for bringing one on board, but honestly, if i found out a guy i was with had one, i’d probably have to do some thinking on that.
i’ve worked in the film industry here in vancouver for a few years and one doc i’d worked on had a lengthy segment not only on the design of the Real Doll but about some of the clients and the manufacturing.
when you consider the detail that goes into the orifices and such, yeah, there’s some practicality to it and all, but i’d find it hard, as a woman, to accept a lover going there.
i’m not sure WHERE that weirdness comes from, whether it’s some sort of feminist mechanism in me that clicks on and goes, “woah, that’s far too objectifying” or what it is, but something in me balks at it.
like it’s just one step too close to necrophilia or something. “necrophilia means never having to say you’re sorry,” but it’s also a tad of a moodkiller, really.
Bacchus, there’s no denying I like being the devil’s advocate now and then, and I like being able to swap ideas on your site. However, I want you to know that I get the feeling we’re both kind of liberal about sex and sensuality, and I agree with most of what you say. The best thing about conflict is that it can and SHOULD bring resolution.
I can’t remember if you guys are the ones that linked to Zeta Creations, the site that manufactures animal-penis shaped dildos. The point there is that there are some people who will be creeped out by a toy and others who will be thrilled by it. By your own admission; if it works for you, then go for it. My only suggestion is that some people need to examine themselves introspectively and ask if they are doing something for the wrong reasons.
If necrophiliacs are buying RealDolls, then it’s keeping them from doing things with actual corpses – a good thing, in my view. If people are acting out some of their more alarming fantasies on dolls, more power to them!
…which is not to say that I don’t find RealDolls creepy too. But I wouldn’t judge someone for using one.
Okay…how aboud a different angle to “creepy”. My wife suggested this one, but I agree completely. On HBO, we were watching *Real Sex* and there was a couple who bought a Real Doll because they wanted to have a “threesome”. Now here was a pair of people who were physically beautiful (no kidding…very attractive) successful (do you know how much those real dolls COST? Of course you have to be successful to own one!) and articulate (at least enough to express themselves on HBO without looking like idiots) yet they are so insecure that they have trouble asking someone else to join them? If you think about it…what is more creepy…the dolls or the secret reasons that people buy them?
I won’t go there with you Dominus — there’s plenty of good reasons a couple might want to play-act a threesome without actually inviting a third person into their relationships. I don’t find that creepy at all.
“Marge! Marge! The doll’s trying to kill me and the toaster’s been laughing at me!”-Homer J Simpson