Julie Meadows On Being A Whore
In a longer piece, Julie Meadows writes:
A woman has natural power in this world. She is a potent source of sexuality and life. It is a gift, but as with all gifts, it is also a curse because men and women will always hate her for knowing her own power.
That is why she is called a whore. She knows it, she uses it, and it scares people who want it or wish they had it, even if her choices have nothing to do with those people. Sex work can be safe and healthy, or it can be illegal and dangerous. We should be protecting all members of our society, including the beautiful and powerful women. A sex worker – properly trained for sex work – can be an educator and source of liberation for others. A friend of mine told me that as a young man, he picked the female with the most sexual experience and had her teach him everything. He had successful relationships after that because he acquired skill through mindfulness that many men never learn because they don’t pay attention. But more than that, a compassionate sex worker can provide emotional and mental soothing for clients, or teach couples things they can do together through instruction. I spent many hours as an escort just talking to clients, listening to their problems and assuring them that the stresses of their daily life are common and that they shouldn’t be too hard on themselves. With an education in therapy and counseling, coupled with the confidence that comes with providing a legal service, I could have thrived as someone capable of physical and mental and emotional therapy. They are all important.
What’s wrong with being a whore? The people who strip her humanity away from her and tape her mouth closed. Other than that, nothing.
Emphasis, on those first three sentences, added by me.
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I’m curious how that reads the other way:
“A man has natural power in this world. He is a potent source of sexuality and life. It is a gift, but as with all gifts, it is also a curse because women and men will always hate him for knowing his own power.”
Hmm.
I guess I feel like there’s something about this whole excerpt that’s guilty of making “females” the gender of sex and sexuality… and not much else… or something. But it’s not really the author’s fault, rather a symptom of a society that does indeed tend to do just that by default. Heck, 8 year old girls are getting bikini waxed, that almost says it all.
Wow, that’s quite a powerful piece of writing. Thanks for posting it. It makes me think about the role of dominatrix – how that seems to gain so much more societal focus than the male dominator, imo.