No Such Thing As A Worthless Hole
One of the fetishes I don’t understand as well as I’d like to is the one where people doing some sort of BDSM or degradation/humiliation play write insults on themselves or on their partner. One sees Tumblr posts of this sort fairly frequently, and if the writing-play itself (when it’s women being written on) need not be inherently misogynistic, the photos are often re-posted on Tumblr with explicitly misogynistic commentary. One of the common insults (along with “cheap whore” and “dirty pig” and so forth) is “worthless hole”.
Every time I see that one, I marvel at it. It seems to me that for a hole to be worthless, the person making that judgment has to have no use for it. And when it’s a man making that judgement, isn’t he basically admitting he can’t get an erection, and that he has no imagination?
Maybe not. But every time I see a woman on Tumblr with “worthless hole” written on her body, I think derisive thoughts about the boring limp-dicked motherfucker who (I imagine) wrote it.
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While I pretty much agree with your logic in this, I can come up with an explanation. “You are a worthless hole,” could be meant to indicate that there are so many holes available, that this particular one’s worth approaches zero. Or it could imply that this person is so used, so worn out, so ugly, etc., that even as a just a sex hole, they are of no value.
On a more positive note, my SO and I have enjoyed writing little notes on ourselves and each other, but they are upbeat notes, like ‘kiss here’, and ‘suck this’ with arrows and circles and the like.
Honestly, the term worthless hole is directed at the girl being nothing more than a hole for me to get off in. Hole is in reference to the girl taking away all of them except the mental stepping that they are there for the pleasure of the man or men.
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