I Have Questions
So this series of tweets went viral the other day about a guy who tried to pull some controlling-asshole caveman shit in a public place, and how it went badly for him:
Couple beside me at the airport is arguing over money. He just told her if she loved him she’d turn down the promotion bc everyone would know she’d be making more money than him and he’d be humiliated. Holy shit is that really still a thing? wtf
— bÍ ÍÍ„ÍÌÍÌŠÍaÌ̈́̓̅̂̓ÌÌ„tÍ’ (@mzbat) December 19, 2017
omg she’s crying and said she’d never do anything to jeopardize their relationship and he’s like “good then turn down the job” and I just want to punch him
— bÍ ÍÍ„ÍÌÍÌŠÍaÌ̈́̓̅̂̓ÌÌ„tÍ’ (@mzbat) December 19, 2017
He just told her once they’re married and have kids she wouldn’t be working anyway so there’s no point focusing on her career anyway and I’m rekt. I can’t believe this is 2017.
— bÍ ÍÍ„ÍÌÍÌŠÍaÌ̈́̓̅̂̓ÌÌ„tÍ’ (@mzbat) December 19, 2017
OMG SHE WIPED HER TEARS & SAID “kids? who said anything about me ever wanting kids?!” pic.twitter.com/WrFXgAWIOz
— bÍ ÍÍ„ÍÌÍÌŠÍaÌ̈́̓̅̂̓ÌÌ„tÍ’ (@mzbat) December 19, 2017
SHE THREW HER BOARDING PASS AT HIM AND TOLD HIM TO HAVE FUN IN CANCUN. SHE JUST RAGE QUIT. OMG PEOPLE CLAPPED WHEN SHE WALKED AWAY. BEST. DAY. EVER.
— bÍ ÍÍ„ÍÌÍÌŠÍaÌ̈́̓̅̂̓ÌÌ„tÍ’ (@mzbat) December 19, 2017
He’s rage texting now. RAGE TEXTING LOL. Good for her but now the airport is boring again. 😉
— bÍ ÍÍ„ÍÌÍÌŠÍaÌ̈́̓̅̂̓ÌÌ„tÍ’ (@mzbat) December 19, 2017
So…
So, I have questions.
#1: Did he board the plane and go to Cancun for Christmas anyway, all alone?
#2: Is he there, right now, drinking cheap tequila, glowering at sex workers that he can’t afford and bending uncaring ears about that “castrating bitch” who dumped him at the airport back home?
#3: How do you get to the “going to Mexico together” stage of a relationship without having explored together even the most basic notions of your mutual aspirations about career and family?
Wow. I can’t help thinking she dodged a bullet by getting away from that guy when she did.
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Yes, she dodged a bullet. If her career is important TO HER, then it ought to be important to him as well. I hope he _DID_ go to Cancun alone; that will give her time to get her stuff moved to a new and nicer apartment, now that she can afford it.
Good gods, yes, she was better off not going on the trip with him at this point – they were going to do nothing but fight.
It is an important talk that they were having, though, as while I agree that he should be long past the idea that he’d be humiliated by her making more money, having kids vs not having kids is a very important talk for any relationship.
He clearly didn’t think kids were a “whether or not”; he was just assuming she would be his baby factory. Not a keeper!