April 8th, 2025 -- by Bacchus
Pushing Through Pain To Get To Pleasure
OnlyFans performer Harmony Blake has a theory about the up-front costs of anal sex, and how the universe gatekeeps its most magical experiences for its strongest warriors:
Harmony says:
The first five seconds of taking it in the back door is brutal. But that is the universe’s way of gatekeeping that magical experience for its strongest fighters. Once you persevere through that first five to 10 seconds of “Oh,
it stings! Oh, my god, it’s going in!” It is magical. It is incredible.And there is a reason the universe gate-keeps it. Not everyone is ready for that experience. You have to push through pain to get to pleasure. And I think that’s beautiful.
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Well I agree with everything but the first 5 seconds comment, but everyone is different. I’ve actually never, not from day one, ever had an issue with penetration if i’m a) aroused at all, b) speed of penetration is like docking a space craft (connect, push) rather than stab-thrust-shove.
However I have met my share of penetrators who think they are a jackhammer enclosed in a meatbag. Mostly it just bounces off to start with.
As someone who is also a penetrator I’ve had a shocking amount of success by insisting my partner listening to a brief anatomy lesson sometime before you we do it (when we’re not in the middle of having sex). The biggest hurdle to anal i’ve found is partners’ prior experiences, misinformation, disinformation, and pre-set expectations.
Well, fuzzy, my experience is with a very small number of partners, and “a brief introductory period of brutal sting” seemed like a fair summary unless quite a bit of preparation and care was taken to ensure relaxation and arousal. Now, in my approach to the world that makes the preparation and care the way to go, but the world is full of people who are at once more adventurous, more impetuous, and possessed of a more playful relationship with pain than I have. I guess it takes all kinds!