The Burbman; And The Animal
It’s nice to see others improving their sex lives, it gives me hope that I’ll have one again someday. Starting in February, the Burbman over at Suburban Sex Blog resumed more regular posting, with the good news that he and his wife seem to have turned their sexless marriage back into something fun for both of them. He’s also offering to help others in similar situations. Good on ya, Burbman!
A few people have written me regarding my preference for hairy men. At this point my only preference is for a live, decent man, but it is true that I don’t like a guy who’s artificially smooth. I was trying to figure out how to say exactly what I don’t like about overly bare guys, but the Dirty Talking Girl beat me to it:
I love male body hair.
I can’t imagine him shaving or, god forbid, waxing, and I don’t understand women who require smoothness in a man.
I think they’re afraid of the animal.
Maybe…..or maybe all the glitzy porn images have led both men and women to expect silky smoothness everywhere. Sure, hair can get in the way or be inconvenient sometimes, but I’ll never forget the guy who got me soaking wet by just playing with my pubes…..pulling gently on a few hairs beginning near my ass and working his way up, sometimes twirling or tickling, but never touching my skin until I was begging him to bury his cock in me. Mmmmmmmm……
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I love the feel of the hair on MFC’s thigh as he parts my own thighs with it. Mmmm, the juxtopositon of that soft flesh being parted by hard male covered in that curly hair is delicious.
I don’t mind hair, well, too much isn’t really something I’d want but the waxed down male chest and body just makes men seem really young and that creeps me out.
ooo…I LOVE how hair my bf is! He’s pretty selfconcious about it, fortunately not enough to do anything drastic! I love running my fingers through his chest hair, down his stomach, down…
ummm…heehee…I think I need a minute!
I’m the kind of hairy that can’t be ignored, but isn’t “why is that man wearing a sweater to a nude beach” obvious. One ex, who continues to try and guide my lovelife 7+ years later, keeps telling me I should *at least* get my back waxed. She’s certain that this is a bare minimum (no pun intended) to landing a new relationship.
Then again, she also once confessed to fantasizing about being taken by a wolf some of the times we were together… I guess I’ll never figure you ladies out. :rolleyes:
[Hostile, nasty comment about Burbman deleted.]
BernNChris@aol.com, you were being a dick. We don’t allow that here. Find a polite way to express your opinion, or keep it to yourself.
hair is hot. I don’t know what this society’s problem is with hair – i think it’s lovely. I love the way it feels, how it can be so very coarse someplaces and not at all in others. It’s natural and that’s how it’s supposed to be.
Of course, I don’t find a gorilla-man particuarly attractive, but anything less than that is great.
You know it’s funny, I got so used to the “hair on men’s bodies is icky” thing that I just sort of assumed all women feel that way. I’m not a total bear; I have a good coat of chest hair, reasonablly hairly legs and arms, and a light coat of fine hair on my back.
As I’ve gotten into my fourties this has all gotten thicker, and I started to think maybe I should do something about the back hair. I mean, I shave my head, I shave my balls, I figured I might as well have my back cleaned up.
To my complete surprise, several of my girl friends were quit apalled. They like me better as I am, hairy back and all. And these are girls who love my shaved head and who keep themsleves bald as virgins.
Some girls like a natually hairy man? Who knew? I certainly didn’t. B^)
I was just starting to buy into that whole smoothness meme when my last ex.. persuaded me not to go down that path. She was also part of the bald virgin brigade, which is my preference.
I suppose I was thinking “well, if I want smooth then I should be prepared to go smooth too”. Sometimes equality means doing as you’re told. :)
I was informed by an ex, after we broke up, that she was finding it hard to see men Without body hair as sexy.
What about hair ‘down there’? Is the general preference for men to be natural, trimmed or shaved?
By linking to the Burbman I don’t endorse or support everything he says (and I think his new design is ugly). I have problems with some of the things he’s said, but in the end everybody has to think and decide for themselves.
Curious, my preference is for natural. Trimmed can be nice, but it can leave hair too short, so it’s prickly instead of tickly. Shaved balls are okay, but an entirely bare genital area just doesn’t appeal to me at all. But I may be in the minority, if the pictures I see represent what people really prefer.
I prefer my men to be groomed below (just to the point you can find the tree in the forest of shrubbery), but otherwise…I love hair on men. I wouldn’t know what to do with myself after sex if he didn’t have some chest hair to swirl.
I commented on another post (the pirate pic) that I like smoooth men.
I want to clarify:
I like ALL men, regardless of whether they are smooth or hairy, but I’ve always had an affinity for the “Captain Kirk chest” – nicely developed pecs that are smooth as silk. *drool*
But I will happily schtup a man that I like whether he’s bald or a wolf. Personality is much more important to me than percentage of body hair!
:-)